THE MEANING OF LIFE FROM A 20-YEAR-OLD

Sanuj Raj
5 min readMay 18, 2021

The Real Meaning

Life is a very personal matter which resides in one’s mind. everybody in this world has a personal taste and a choice of their own which is far different from anybody else and this quality makes each and every person on this planet special but sadly most of the people fail to realise this until they are met with sadness.

Never blame anyone in life, the good people give you happiness, the worst people give you lesson and the best people give you memories.

Above everything, your personality matters the most and it is something which anyone regardless of age should be constantly working towards. Having a great personality makes the person more attractive than a person being beautiful. If someone looks for beauty on the outside he will surely Fed up with the person unless and until they have inner beauty. Everybody has inner beauty regardless of gender, age, ethnicity and it is exactly what makes a person beautiful.

Have a 3rd Person Perspective Vision

People try to look through their eyes which sometimes can become selfish in a way that they don’t understand and ignore that things around them which are not important to them, but if you ever try to look at yourself from a third person‘s perspective then they would realise how many silly mistakes they are making in their pursuit of selfish happiness.

Don’t be so Judgemental

Being Judgemental is there primary thing one should avoid during the phase of a happy life. It is a phenomenon that is rooted deep in our systems, as a matter of fact, whatever you do you cannot stop judging people the only thing that can be done here is to think before a judgement is to be made and try to make less judgement about anybody.

Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about, so always be kind.

Failure is the Best Teacher

Nobody in this world can teach you the true meaning and essence of life unless and until you fail to add something big. Failure teaches you the things you thought were not possible, it makes you humble and makes you realise why you were sent into this world and what is your purpose in life. The greatest minds of a generation had failed numerous times Which led to their unparalleled success and achievements.

Empty stomach and empty pockets can teach you the lessons of life that no school is capable of.

Always Have a Positive Attitude

No matter what happens, no matter what goes wrong in your life, no matter who cheats you always have a positive attitude towards everything and I mean everything. There are so many things to distract you in this world from a positive attitude but only one thing which will let you be a positive person which is your willpower. keeping this vision can do wonders for you and it will always keep you humble and make you appreciate what other people take for granted. Positivity should be written on your DNA.

You can’t change the people around you but you can change the people aroind you.

Always have a Role Model

your goal or mission is always to have a role model that you should look up to, it will help you to set a goal that believes me will be beneficial for you in the long run. learn from their mistakes what they did wrong, why did so, what could have been done to mend those mistakes. Try to analyse the situation before getting into it by following these easy procedures of following your role model. Here role model can be anyone your favourite actor, your favourite comedian, your favourite sportsperson, even your dad or your brother, it doesn’t matter until and unless you learn from them and adapt to make yourself a better person by learning from their mistakes and making a vision for yourself along the way.

Wear your Confidence

it is not your clothes or your hairstyle which the other person reads what is your confidence that they remember. The only thing you can where is your confidence, if you do it well then believe me you will be unstoppable and even unrecognisable by the ones who doubted you in the beginning. whenever you go into a job interview the only thing the recruiter Wants from you are your skills bathed into confidence.

We don’t live in buglows, flats or mansions rather we live in our minds, that is our permanent resident. Keep it clean.

Be Grateful and Kind Always

being kind and grateful should not require an occasion to be shown. it is an and selfish and natural act which regardless of anyone watching you should be doing. being kind leads to gratefulness and being grateful for something leads you to become a kind person in the long run. it is rightly said hard work and being kind always pays off and provides massive returns for the person who is able to do both.

Never compare yourself with anyone rather you should be comparing you with your older self. Remember life is a race with no competitors rather a sole person competing with himself.

Life is a Marathon

Life is not a race instead it is a marathon that has lots of ups and downs. Remember to win a war there are many battles that will be lost and many battles that you will win. to win something big there are many sacrifices that you have to give along with the way. sacrificing for someone you love and cherish forms the basic fundamental of life. Life as meaning is not fully understood by anybody who ever lived on the surface of the earth, everybody has their own perspective and opinion which tend to be very unique and special at the same time.

In life never cry for anyone, the person will not be worth it, and the one who will worth it will not let you.

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